Today friends, we talk about something that everyone will have to deal with in their life whether we like it or not, and that is mean people, specifically mean girls, because they are a whole new level of mean. We have all been mean girls in our lives but there are some who just won't quit and with my experience, there are a few types of mean girl.
1. The Once-Friend-Now-Enemy (Frienemie)
These are the kind of mean girl who you were friends with at one point but somewhere along the line, she completely turned on you for little or no reason at all. They have a grudge against you and there is nothing that you can do but smile and wave when you see her in public and pray that she doesn't bite your head off.
2. The Mind-trick
Similar to the frienemie but sneakier, these are the mean girls who you don't even realize are mean until way after. She could be your best friend, but at the same time make you feel inches tall. You just let her get away with it because she is your friend after all and wouldn't dare to do anything to hurt you, because that's what she told you. Even if everyone else can clearly see her true colours, you're blinded by her nice girl disguise.
3. The "I'm Better Than You"
These girls, usually popular, seem to think they have the world on a string. It's their world and we are all just living in it. They are usually mean due to the fact that they can get whatever they want, whenever they want it. This girl can never be happy with what they have and always want better.
4. The Friend Jumper
That one girl who can't seem to stay friends with someone for too long. She meets someone and they instantly click but then a couple months later, she claim to hate said friend and move on to someone new and keep repeating this cycle, sometimes even recycling when she runs out of people to be friends with
5. Eternal Mean Girl
The girl who seems to be stuck in high school and still thinks its cool to be malicious and hurtful. The girl who is bitter, but not sarcastic, and never has anything nice to say. She has her one group of friends that try to act like "The Plastics" but aren't cutting it. It's these girls who will have one group of friends their whole life and be curious as to why no one likes them.
Why are girls mean?
When girls hate on each other it's usually out of jealousy, because they either want to be more like them or want something that they have. They have a one track mind and the only thing on it is themselves and their well-being. All girls are mean, its just a matter of how mean they are to truly be considered as a mean girl. We have all said things about someone, its all a matter of perspective. True mean girls don't care about the feelings of others because in their mind, they are the only ones who matter.
How to avoid them?
You can't, they will always be there. Something you should always remember about these girls is that they are bullies and won't be going anywhere in life, they will always be mean. You do you. Be yourself and just don't let them bring you down because you are awesome.
♥Jess
